ok, so I've been hanging out with this girl a lil bit for the last couple weeks. Really cute, hb9.5. I wrote about a coffee date we had a couple weeks back. We hung out July 4th and I showed her a good time and got in some ****y and funny and threw a few jabs at her plus a bit of kino that I couldn't do on our coffee date. Anyhow, I want to ask her out on a more formal date. Herein lies the problem: word has caught my ear that she may be kinda seeing someone else. I still plan to ask her out cause I'll regret it if I don't. If she says yes fine, but what should I say to overcome her objections if she says something like "I'm kinda already dating someone" or something similar. Also, and I know I'm thinking about this too much, but she just got out of a long term relationship, so what could I say to overcome her objections if she says "I don't want to date right now, I just got out of something long term". Anyway, I just want some pointers on those two things. Cause other than those two things, I know she would say yes, and I believe she'll say yes regardless, but any help will be good.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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