"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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overcoming a problem..

randalll

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for most problems, there's a solution, a fix, such as cognitive therapy for people with low self esteem... or pills, for people suffering depression. these solutions have helped so many people overcome their weaknesses and become more confident, more of an alpha male.

but i can't overcome my weakness, because there's no fix.

alpha males are generally fast thinkers, and very good with words. im neither of these, and can't help feel that this is what's holding me back. i dont want to be negative.. i know i have lots of strengths as well, but unfortunately they're in areas that aren't going to help me develop alpha male characterstics.

my question is, is there anything i can do to speed up my thought and language processes. i think now, after months and months of self improvement, this is the single thing that's holding me back, and stopping me from becoming a confident alpha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Read a wide variety of material.

Classical Shakespeare -> Dostoyevsky -> Wall Street Journal -> Brave New World-> The Economist

Et cetera.
 

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had an appointment at the doctors today
turns out i've got mild aphasia
no wonder it's been so bloody difficult :(

i think this is the wrong forum for me now
cheers for all the help over the past few months, learnt so much from this site
 
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