overcoming a problem..

[randalll]

for most problems, there's a solution, a fix, such as cognitive therapy for people with low self esteem... or pills, for people suffering depression. these solutions have helped so many people overcome their weaknesses and become more confident, more of an alpha male.

but i can't overcome my weakness, because there's no fix.

alpha males are generally fast thinkers, and very good with words. im neither of these, and can't help feel that this is what's holding me back. i dont want to be negative.. i know i have lots of strengths as well, but unfortunately they're in areas that aren't going to help me develop alpha male characterstics.

my question is, is there anything i can do to speed up my thought and language processes. i think now, after months and months of self improvement, this is the single thing that's holding me back, and stopping me from becoming a confident alpha.

 

[Ryoku]

Read a wide variety of material.

Classical Shakespeare -> Dostoyevsky -> Wall Street Journal -> Brave New World-> The Economist

Et cetera.

 

[randalll]

had an appointment at the doctors today
turns out i've got mild aphasia
no wonder it's been so bloody difficult

i think this is the wrong forum for me now
cheers for all the help over the past few months, learnt so much from this site