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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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over this xmas period should you wait longer before u call?

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i've got a couple of number 2 days before xmas, and usually i'd call after about 2-3 days.. but since xmas and boxing day have coincided with these 3 days.. plus also its the weekend tomorrow, should i wait a bit longer before i make the calls to set up the 1st dates?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i like to call on sunday evenings and schedule dates for tuesday or wednesday. but that's just me personally. however if it was tuesday that you got the numbers you may want to do it sooner so they at least remember you!
 
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but in this case xmas and boxing day coincided with that period, so should i wait till after these days?
 
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pete101 said:
i've got a couple of number 2 days before xmas, and usually i'd call after about 2-3 days.. but since xmas and boxing day have coincided with these 3 days.. plus also its the weekend tomorrow, should i wait a bit longer before i make the calls to set up the 1st dates?
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I call all the time, but most of my phone calls are not made for the sole purpose of arranging a meet.

I call a few times, chat the girl up, then let her go. This often causes her to actually suggest a meet after just a couple of phone calls, which makes it much easier for me from there on in.
 
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