Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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over this xmas period should you wait longer before u call?

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i've got a couple of number 2 days before xmas, and usually i'd call after about 2-3 days.. but since xmas and boxing day have coincided with these 3 days.. plus also its the weekend tomorrow, should i wait a bit longer before i make the calls to set up the 1st dates?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i like to call on sunday evenings and schedule dates for tuesday or wednesday. but that's just me personally. however if it was tuesday that you got the numbers you may want to do it sooner so they at least remember you!
 
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but in this case xmas and boxing day coincided with that period, so should i wait till after these days?
 
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pete101 said:
i've got a couple of number 2 days before xmas, and usually i'd call after about 2-3 days.. but since xmas and boxing day have coincided with these 3 days.. plus also its the weekend tomorrow, should i wait a bit longer before i make the calls to set up the 1st dates?
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I call all the time, but most of my phone calls are not made for the sole purpose of arranging a meet.

I call a few times, chat the girl up, then let her go. This often causes her to actually suggest a meet after just a couple of phone calls, which makes it much easier for me from there on in.
 
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