"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Over for the Whataboutism 1950s Nostalgiacels

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The bitter irony of all this is, that from 2016-The Present, we've essentially been in a social climate which very closely mirrors The 1950s in terms of it's repressiveness. And this has sucked s-it through a f-cking straw!!!

The Nostalgiacels have had their wish for awhile now, and they're still somehow even more miserable than the rest of us
 

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The bitter irony of all this is, that from 2016-The Present, we've essentially been in a social climate which very closely mirrors The 1950s in terms of it's repressiveness. And this has sucked s-it through a f-cking straw!!!

The Nostalgiacels have had their wish for awhile now, and they're still somehow even more miserable than the rest of us
It's worst now (except for the Chads/Tyrones/Chadrones, etc..) than the 1950s since as a net more guys had sex because of strict monogomy/marriage. In that light it is actually less repressive as there was less sexlessness among guys. Also women needed guys to be a breadwinner to them and beta guys acutally also had more value.
 

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It's worst now (except for the Chads/Tyrones/Chadrones, etc..) than the 1950s since as a net more guys had sex because of strict monogomy/marriage. In that light it is actually less repressive as there was less sexlessness among guys. Also women needed guys to be a breadwinner to them and beta guys acutally also had more value.
I've learned the hard way that trying to Red Pill guys out of this particular myth("Back in The 50s, even the schleps had little to no difficulty snagging decent p-ssy!!!")is more fruitless than trying to persuade an Evangelical Christian that the dead don't rise from the grave, even if the corpse in question happens to be a fella named Yeshua from Nazareth

I won't p-ss away the effort here
 

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I've learned the hard way that trying to Red Pill guys out of this particular myth("Back in The 50s, even the schleps had little to no difficulty snagging decent p-ssy!!!")is more fruitless than trying to persuade an Evangelical Christian that the dead don't rise from the grave, even if the corpse in question happens to be a fella named Yeshua from Nazareth

I won't p-ss away the effort here
I'm an Evangelical Christian too. Thanks for not p-ss away your effort here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm an Evangelical Christian too. Thanks for not p-ss away your effort here.
I've got some lousy news for you, hoss, in addition to Jesus never having risen from the dead:

-Neither Santa Claus nor The Easter Bunny are real

-The Stork didn't drop you off in front of the orphanage; You emerged from a vijayjay, just like the rest of us

-DiCaprio isn't remotely hetero. All of those alleged affairs with supermodels have been stage managed
 
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Religious discussions are not allowed on this board. If you are going to be going on some posting rampage and risk getting yourself flagged and/or banned, then be my guest. You are not going to drag me into it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi Cornbread,
"Nostalgia"suggests a yearning for something previously experienced and lost.....Well I lived through the Fifties,it was a miserable,cheese paring existence....Good riddance to that!
 

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If you want a different take on the 1950's read On The Road by Jack Kerouac. Captures the feeling of optimism and sense of possibility of the post war era and chronicles the burgeoning counterculture scene as well. There was creaks and creases in the "stifling conformity" if you knew where to look but you were stuck with jazz as the cool music until Elvis came along.
 

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There was creaks and creases in the "stifling conformity" if you knew where to look but you were stuck with jazz as the cool music until Elvis came along.
Add to that the creaks and creases you're referring to were only one part of The 1950s. As noted here, at 3:25-3:60


Things had become inane and repressive once again, by time the late 50s rolled around... The constipated atmosphere that engulfed much of The Industrialized World didn't become less plugged up until '64, with the advent of Beatlemania
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well I lived through the Fifties,it was a miserable,cheese paring existence....Good riddance to that!
Oddly enough, similar factors (Sketchy social science, Panic over violent crime, etc) during both The 1950s and The Late 10s-Today led to both eras becoming far more priggish and censorship-friendly


Only difference: Folks in The 1950s were terrified that crime and horror comics, Weed, and Rock And Roll might be turning teens into greasy-haired, switch blade wielding hoodlums. Whereas in the late 10s, entirely too many of us were infected with a delusion which dictate that action movies, scantily clad centerfolds, and testosterone alone could turn Everyday Joes into mass shooting serial rapists
 

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I'll kinda sorta grant one concession to True Believers In All Things Red Pill... From late '16-The Present, the state of free speech has been in lousy shape


9:45-14:00

The brand of ostentatious sensitivity that's transformed our social climate into the highly constricted clusterf-ck it is today isn't entirely new*, nonetheless it has definitely been more pervasive for going on a decade now. Free Speech was in better shape as recently as The 2000s and the early 10s



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Note the date this aired
 

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On fetlife, there is a long list of fetish fantasies people can say interest them, one of which is "1950s Household." It's more women than men who check that box.
 

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On fetlife, there is a long list of fetish fantasies people can say interest them, one of which is "1950s Household." It's more women than men who check that box.
Well, life probably WAS pretty cush for June Cleaver and Harriet.... Pity they were no less fictional than Neo, Morpheus, and The Matrix are
 

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Apparently


Our forefathers were griping about all the s-it us moderns do, just not in Manosphere jargon
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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