Over analysing vs Going with the flow

[Murk]

I've not been particularly successful with women, life to date. Most of my success came in the last 7 years (22-29), and I only learned about all this redpill/pua **** in the last 2 years. It was more a natural progression in character and confidence due to work/life experiences. I can safely say this "game" hasn't helped me at all, I'm good with women because I'm confident and socially/ self-aware and luckily handsome.

I've noticed even seemingly cool/sociable/chad-like dudes on here over analysing. I read threads and I'm just like... bro wtf does it matter?

Can you "do it to death"? i.e over think, nitpick, analyse this sh!t to a degree/level that it really doesn't need?

I work in Human Capital, "the stock of knowledge, habits, social and personality attributes, including creativity, embodied in the ability to perform labour so as to produce economic value." - more particularly Workday which is a financial management and human capital management software.

People are so intrinsically unique that you can't blanket them (see women) under a set of rules to live by.

What happened to gut feeling, playing sh!t by ear, yolo mindset, not being so cynical? I fully understand many have been cheated on, lives ruined by women, deceived, me included. Let's be honest though, when "out in the field" how many are reverting back to that thread or book they read, youtube video they watched or podcast they listened to so intensely on the commute to work?

You go on instinct and react as such, then moan and whine in hindsight.

Or - you let the lessons resonate then your instinctual reactions tend to fall in line with what you read. But even then, no matter how much you've studied game you'll revert to type unless you actually live it out honestly.

It's confidence and a DGAF attitude that will get you where you want to be in life and with women. you are the only thing gatekeeping your success, but you need to believe that or you'll be going round in circles.

 

[In2theGame]

Good post. Of all the things I think Men are lacking today in terms of handling Women is the king hormone Testosterone. I truly believe modern society wants to lower Testosterone as much as possible in Men today.

 

[Dash Riprock]

There's a TON of over-analyzing on this site but it's kind of what the site is for--to address guy's questions on women. I get that.

That being said, the minute a man stops giving a f*uck, employs the abundance mindset, and stops putting so much emphasis on "chasing and getting girls to like him," the minute he will stop over-analyzing and actually become more attractive.

I wish I could pound that into the heads of 95% of all SS posters.

 

[nicksaiz65]

For me personally, I needed resources like this because I didn’t have the social skills or knowledge to deal with women like most other people did naturally. So I took it upon myself to learn, and I think that the Game Community has honestly helped with that.

Overthinking is hard to not do though. I usually will read this site in my downtime, and when I’m out in the field I try to let everything flow naturally.