I've not been particularly successful with women, life to date. Most of my success came in the last 7 years (22-29), and I only learned about all this redpill/pua **** in the last 2 years. It was more a natural progression in character and confidence due to work/life experiences. I can safely say this "game" hasn't helped me at all, I'm good with women because I'm confident and socially/ self-aware and luckily handsome.
I've noticed even seemingly cool/sociable/chad-like dudes on here over analysing. I read threads and I'm just like... bro wtf does it matter?
Can you "do it to death"? i.e over think, nitpick, analyse this sh!t to a degree/level that it really doesn't need?
I work in Human Capital, "the stock of knowledge, habits, social and personality attributes, including creativity, embodied in the ability to perform labour so as to produce economic value." - more particularly Workday which is a financial management and human capital management software.
People are so intrinsically unique that you can't blanket them (see women) under a set of rules to live by.
What happened to gut feeling, playing sh!t by ear, yolo mindset, not being so cynical? I fully understand many have been cheated on, lives ruined by women, deceived, me included. Let's be honest though, when "out in the field" how many are reverting back to that thread or book they read, youtube video they watched or podcast they listened to so intensely on the commute to work?
You go on instinct and react as such, then moan and whine in hindsight.
Or - you let the lessons resonate then your instinctual reactions tend to fall in line with what you read. But even then, no matter how much you've studied game you'll revert to type unless you actually live it out honestly.
It's confidence and a DGAF attitude that will get you where you want to be in life and with women. you are the only thing gatekeeping your success, but you need to believe that or you'll be going round in circles.
I've noticed even seemingly cool/sociable/chad-like dudes on here over analysing. I read threads and I'm just like... bro wtf does it matter?
Can you "do it to death"? i.e over think, nitpick, analyse this sh!t to a degree/level that it really doesn't need?
I work in Human Capital, "the stock of knowledge, habits, social and personality attributes, including creativity, embodied in the ability to perform labour so as to produce economic value." - more particularly Workday which is a financial management and human capital management software.
People are so intrinsically unique that you can't blanket them (see women) under a set of rules to live by.
What happened to gut feeling, playing sh!t by ear, yolo mindset, not being so cynical? I fully understand many have been cheated on, lives ruined by women, deceived, me included. Let's be honest though, when "out in the field" how many are reverting back to that thread or book they read, youtube video they watched or podcast they listened to so intensely on the commute to work?
You go on instinct and react as such, then moan and whine in hindsight.
Or - you let the lessons resonate then your instinctual reactions tend to fall in line with what you read. But even then, no matter how much you've studied game you'll revert to type unless you actually live it out honestly.
It's confidence and a DGAF attitude that will get you where you want to be in life and with women. you are the only thing gatekeeping your success, but you need to believe that or you'll be going round in circles.
