Outside opinion..

[cola]

Yeah so, long story cut really short.

-3 year relationship
-Live together 2 years
-Sex drops over time
-Started getting sex once every 2 weeks
-Warned her it wasn't enough several times
-No change

-Told her more sex or I'm done
-Gave me nonchalant attutude
-Now I'm about to break lease on her ass..

Pretty sure I did the right thing. Actually, I know I did the right thing..
Just need reassurance from so suave brahs..

My exact words were actually "Told you about this too many times, now im going to get ***** elsewhere "

Silent treatment, and I'm sleeping in living room.
I learned enough from older brahs to know that lack of sex seldom gets better, only worse and at 22, I ain't wit dat!

Opinions?
Handled like a boss or chode?
Mature brahs been in that situation wanna share experience ?
AS, Mike32, Zekko, Iceberg?

P.S and I'm a week into no fap, so puzzy bi-monthly just ain't gonna work..

 

[youngmack]

You do know her interest level dropped a substantial amount right? The "honeymoon" phase of the relationship is long gone and shes bored and wants someone new.I think she has been getting C0ck somewhere else for a while hence the reason why your statement :"Told you about this too many times, now im going to get ***** elsewhere " didn't really phase her.

Its time to just break it off officially and move on even though the relationship was over to her for a long time now.

 

[cola]

Your right and your wrong. Nah, she's not getting **** anywhere else. My games too tight, not to sound arrogant. She knows I'm a g. Respect never left our situation..
But the honey moon phase has been over for years.

Its a libido thing I think..
But you are smart for your age young mack, definitely time to bounce.

 

[Skalioppe]

You didn't kink things up enough. Women like to pretend that missionary or the odd bit of doggy is enough, but tie them up, slap their arse, pull their hair and tell them you own them as you smash their cervix and they'll soon snap out of their once a week attitude.

My advice, try and come back and tell me I'm right, because I will be.

"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure." -de Sade

 

[Mike32ct]

Hey cola.

I like you man, and appreciate you mentioning me, but I honestly don't have much LTR experience. My specialities are mostly vacation lays, bar/club game, ONS, FWB, work politics, casual dating, decoding "girl speak", general women stuff, plus helping newbies.

I've dated here and there, but haven't actually LIVED with a female (despite my age), so I wouldn't be most experienced guy on this one.

I'll respectfully defer to the others.

Notwithstanding, I agree with Rollo that, "You can't negotiate desire." I honestly don't know if it's even possible to make her want sex more. Sure you could have stopped initiating and "froze her out" for a bit so she seduces you, but that's only a temporary band-aid solution, not a long-term fix. I probably would have tried that, without pressuring her verbally. But it's not a real "solution" just temporary. Ultimately, I think you were right to break up with her. If you aren't happy and she's not meeting your needs, what choice do you have?

Anyway, I'd be interested to see what the other opinions are.

 

[cola]

Thanks Skal, your probably right ..

 

[cola]

Thanks Mike, bro.
And I appreciate the fact instead of speaking on something you ain't familiar with, you deferred. Shows wisdom. There is absolutely no shame in the sentence "I don't know"..

Wish me luck, been a long time tied down..
Guess I start with good ol' self improvement and hopefully its still lots of easy lays out there..

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Textbook example of Iron Rule #4:

https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/