"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Outdoors gear - 40% off wholesale!

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Yep, you heard me... all you have to do is get a job at an outdoors shop! I did, a week or two ago... and couldn't believe some of the crap I found out about employee discounts. I'm not sure if it works the same way with national chains (bass pro, etc... probably not), but with the one I'm at, I can order anything I want direct from the manufacturer for wholesale.

Retail = a 45%-52% markup... so if it costs $50 wholesale, it's around 100 in the store. Good, yes... but it becomes great. Some companies like The North Face offer special 'pro deals' to employees of outdoor shops... so instead of buying at wholesale, you get to buy shoes for 40% less than wholesale, 30% off wholesale for gear and clothes, etc. It's crazy... stuff I could never afford now is barely a dent in my wallet - $300 for a bag? Wholesale's at 150, 30% off of that makes it 105. No tax.

Someone's going to be doing a lot of camping in the near future... already bought myself a kayak... ;) Anyway, just had to share that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by diablo
Yep, you heard me... all you have to do is get a job at an outdoors shop! I did, a week or two ago... and couldn't believe some of the crap I found out about employee discounts. I'm not sure if it works the same way with national chains (bass pro, etc... probably not), but with the one I'm at, I can order anything I want direct from the manufacturer for wholesale.

Retail = a 45%-52% markup... so if it costs $50 wholesale, it's around 100 in the store. Good, yes... but it becomes great. Some companies like The North Face offer special 'pro deals' to employees of outdoor shops... so instead of buying at wholesale, you get to buy shoes for 40% less than wholesale, 30% off wholesale for gear and clothes, etc. It's crazy... stuff I could never afford now is barely a dent in my wallet - $300 for a bag? Wholesale's at 150, 30% off of that makes it 105. No tax.

Someone's going to be doing a lot of camping in the near future... already bought myself a kayak... ;) Anyway, just had to share that.
Those kinds of perks are great. My daughter gets to see free movies and can bring a whole group of family or friends out to the movies once a week since she works at a movie theatre. I like my perks better though...a huge Christmas bonus. Last year it was 26% of the annual base pay. It should be more this year. The lowest Xmas bonus is over $5500. They have a gym and free exercise classes on site, too.

Enjoy that kayak...
 

Boner da Stoner

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we have retail stores here, you either get a 5% discount on retail goods(groceries keep their 300% mark-up) or a store account to charge on... (disregarding position perks)with 1 year of service you get dental, 2 years medical, 3 years vacation(10%) ****ty stuff:)


are you allowed to hook your friends up with the stuff?
 

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where exactly do you work and would you be willing to buy stuff and then sell it so you make a modest profit?
 

diablo

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Originally posted by Stud
where exactly do you work
Where exactly do you live and work? What is the girl you're currently interested in's cell phone number? What's your social security number? All of these and more are questions you'll almost never see answered on a message board.

and would you be willing to buy stuff and then sell it so you make a modest profit?
I'm an eBay powerseller... however I'm not going to risk losing a job to make a few bucks on the side (which I'm already doing very successfully already...)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diablo
Yep, you heard me... all you have to do is get a job at an outdoors shop! I did, a week or two ago... and couldn't believe some of the crap I found out about employee discounts. I'm not sure if it works the same way with national chains (bass pro, etc... probably not), but with the one I'm at, I can order anything I want direct from the manufacturer for wholesale.

Retail = a 45%-52% markup... so if it costs $50 wholesale, it's around 100 in the store. Good, yes... but it becomes great. Some companies like The North Face offer special 'pro deals' to employees of outdoor shops... so instead of buying at wholesale, you get to buy shoes for 40% less than wholesale, 30% off wholesale for gear and clothes, etc. It's crazy... stuff I could never afford now is barely a dent in my wallet - $300 for a bag? Wholesale's at 150, 30% off of that makes it 105. No tax.

Someone's going to be doing a lot of camping in the near future... already bought myself a kayak... ;) Anyway, just had to share that.
I need to hang out at REI more often and try to date one of the chicks that work there... Gear is too d@mn expensive.... :p
 
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