"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Outalphaed by a woman

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happyguy2

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I kind of learned what being left 'high and dry' means. I was chatting up this very pretty (visiting) Israeli girl at dance class. She was very appealing.. naturally dark olive/brown skin, lovely eyes and a gorgeous smile.. every guy in class with balls was going after her. Anyway, so I was chatting her, she was friendly and laughing and engaged in the dialog, but after about 3 minutes she automatically switched to talking to me like a stranger. Like she was trained in this art of talking to guys... it was so clinical and precise, especially the finale where she touched my shoulder, turned her face away, and then just coolly stepped away to talk to another person. That was such a perfect and unexpected put down, I was totally blindsided. I was like, sh*t, what just happened!? I was high and alert and locked-in, and the HB just steps out casually! All I could do was smile and shake my head in disbelief. Probably was the wrong place and wrong time to 'chat', but was an enlightening experience nonetheless. Some girls Do know how to act in social/high-worth situations... almost like an art.

Anybody have similar stories?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ExcelNPrevail

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Are you really 58 ?...Either way yes it has happened to me. I was at lost of word for the moment, the way some women move so gracefull while conversating to you can put you off guard.
 
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happyguy2

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I am old. The mods here have a beef with me, they move around or delete my posts at their whim. Stupid mods.
 

iqqi

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^^^You can report them. This is something others have also noticed, but it will keep happening unless you bring it to someone's attention. You can report this thread itself, or contact admin (should be at bottom of page).
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah, a situation like this instantly lit up a memory deep in my databank. I felt like a dork waiting for her to finish talking with whoever she was talking to and it set the frame she's the dominant one. It's funny because I had a dream about this last night, I was the wing to some random PUA, and when his girl was talking to other guys, he was talking to other girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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