"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I kind of learned what being left 'high and dry' means. I was chatting up this very pretty (visiting) Israeli girl at dance class. She was very appealing.. naturally dark olive/brown skin, lovely eyes and a gorgeous smile.. every guy in class with balls was going after her. Anyway, so I was chatting her, she was friendly and laughing and engaged in the dialog, but after about 3 minutes she automatically switched to talking to me like a stranger. Like she was trained in this art of talking to guys... it was so clinical and precise, especially the finale where she touched my shoulder, turned her face away, and then just coolly stepped away to talk to another person. That was such a perfect and unexpected put down, I was totally blindsided. I was like, sh*t, what just happened!? I was high and alert and locked-in, and the HB just steps out casually! All I could do was smile and shake my head in disbelief. Probably was the wrong place and wrong time to 'chat', but was an enlightening experience nonetheless. Some girls Do know how to act in social/high-worth situations... almost like an art.

Anybody have similar stories?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you really 58 ?...Either way yes it has happened to me. I was at lost of word for the moment, the way some women move so gracefull while conversating to you can put you off guard.
 
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I am old. The mods here have a beef with me, they move around or delete my posts at their whim. Stupid mods.
 
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^^^You can report them. This is something others have also noticed, but it will keep happening unless you bring it to someone's attention. You can report this thread itself, or contact admin (should be at bottom of page).
 
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War Against Betaism

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Yeah, a situation like this instantly lit up a memory deep in my databank. I felt like a dork waiting for her to finish talking with whoever she was talking to and it set the frame she's the dominant one. It's funny because I had a dream about this last night, I was the wing to some random PUA, and when his girl was talking to other guys, he was talking to other girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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