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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

marmel75

Master Don Juan

Sep 2, 2016

Fireballs said:
Well that was short lived - banged her Thursday then she initiated Fri (but I was busy) then she initiated again Saturday so banged her again but has been radio silence since .. Nothing from me or her and my gut is telling me it's done and I've decided I'm not going to reach out.. anyway at least I got a couple more good lays out of her .. she had a banging body

Hey, look at it as you got something out of it that you didn't expect, so you exceeded your expectations...

Don't sweat it, if she re-initiates then keep banging her...

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.