"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Out and about. Goals?

Mbuckets82

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A bro and i are going to a pretty cool place tonight and I expect tons of chicks there. What should be my goals? I haven’t done this in forever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What he said.

Also, see how many times you can ask "hey, what's your name?"

I'm expecting at least 10 names tomorrow, young buck.
 

Mbuckets82

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Went to a few different places and I definitely talked to a good amount of women. All either married or no way I found them attractive. It was easier for me to approach groups of women. If a dude was with them I didn’t go over.
At times it got super loud. And I couldn’t speak. It def gave me a ton of confidence.

And I got texts from a girl I’ve been on a date with that she thinks I’m not feeling her like that. Idk we been on one date. I’m interested in her and I think I showed that. She wants a relationship. Not so soon for me. I want to fish around the seas.
 
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