"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Out- AMOGed him. F.R.

Themanthatcan

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It's late. Gramatical errors will have to be forgiven.

I've been reading alot of TD and my bro and I where walking down the street of this local hangout and this guy started walking next to us.

[At first I'm thinking he's a big brother or something]

Him: "Hey are you two following those girls" (referring to one of the 10's of women walking in front of us)

TM: "Which ones?"

Him:[Points in the general direction of in front of us] "Those girls up there."

TM: "Dude. Which girls....?.What are you talking about, man? We're just walking."

[This is where he starts to get really condescending and I know he's just screwing around trying to be alpha]

Him: "Are you guys picking up chicks? I think you should go pick up those chicks. Those girls are just your age. I'm too old for them. IF I WERE YOU I would go say something. "

[Thinking I'm just going to be a little wussy walking down the street or something]

TM: IF YOU WERE ME, YOU could get any girl you wanted :).

Him: [Gets really hyper and starts spazzing] Oh really!? Let's go find out!"

He chases down the girls and starts talking to some random 2 set and I walk by when my brother stops to check something out right behind where they were talking. I go and hang back with my bro and he points over to us

Him: Yeah! These two guys right here! They said they could blah blah blah. !

They smiled and looked nervous when they were talking to him. I look over my shoulder, when he mentions me and the girl tells him she has a boyfriend etc (almost like they're rejecting HIM).

TM: [smile] Hey, sorry if that guy was being a little obnoxious, (right in front of him, ignoring him basically)
What's your names?

HB:-------
2HB:--------


Him: Blah blah [starts to try and cut in. As of now, I have them faced toward ME, away from HIM, with me looking over my shoulder]


TM: Hey man, it's cool. [cutting him off]

Then I just start chatting with them again and get both their digits as the guy watches from afar.

We'll be hanging out sometime next weekend.

My bro just smiled the whole time because he has been reading about AMOGing too. Thought it was hilarious.


Night.


TMTC :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holland

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TM: Hey man, it's cool. [cutting him off]
You probably hit that sentence with a split-second glance at him and then he was out.

Nice scenario, you gotta love tools like that :whistle:
 
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