She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If Johnson didn't defend himself by grabbing the other guys arm, he would have been shot in the head.Johnson (the victim) told CNN that there was an altercation outside the club and that he exchanged words with Norris (the shooter). He said he didn't think much of it, and he began walking to his car when Norris pulled up in his Hummer, got out of the vehicle and pointed a gun at his head.
"When he put the gun to my head, all I could think about was I'm not going to let this kid take me away from my mom, especially with what she's dealing with right now," Johnson said.
He said he grabbed Norris' wrist and pulled his arm down when shots rang out. "I felt the sharpest burning sensation when the first bullet hit my leg. It actually made my leg buckle," he said.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
While I agree with how fvcked up the ruling was on this, and how fvcked up our justice system is, this was NOT a 'premeditated attempted murder.' Premeditated means planned in advance, and attempted murder means the suspect really tried to KILL someone. This was not the case. He didn't plan it days in advance, so it wasn't premeditated, and he only pulled the trigger in the middle of a physical confrontation, so it technicallly wasnt attempted murder.Maxtro said:What he did was a premeditated attempted murder.
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I like this line, however. It kind of points out that the suspect is a spoiled little rich boy, who's daddy probably DID get him out of this. He was a college boy, and there is no way in hell he bought his own hummer.when Norris pulled up in his Hummer,