Korrupt
Banned
What a sad existence..
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i agree, were here for help with self improvement, tips and support, the main focus happens to be women, if you have another focus, go to another site or the Anything else section. Also, if you wish to become a PUA, then another site may be better for you as this trickery (although taught in part)is not what were after in the end.georgie24 said:dont understand direction of the topic
but our success is happiness
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the Term Success is so thwarted and over used like a hooker on the vegas stripPurefilth said:i agree, were here for help with self improvement, tips and support, the main focus happens to be women, if you have another focus, go to another site or the Anything else section. Also, if you wish to become a PUA, then another site may be better for you as this trickery (although taught in part)is not what were after in the end.
As georgie24 says, happiness = success=happiness.
Indeed..Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Very well written, and congrats on becoming a more confident person.The Sperminator said:Here is the definition of success it is the achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted. If sleeping with women is your goal then yes you are successful if you are talking about in life then that's a different story.
Just because you can get women to sleep with you does not mean you are successful in life just in the women department....but before joining this site I was terrible with women a virgin, no dates, no kiss, no nothing. This site, books, articles, etc. that taught me how to get women to get women and I became successful with them.
I would say in general I became a more successful person because of it and not just because of the women but because I learned how to get what I want, I learned that nothing is impossible, I learned that if you work hard enough you can do anything you want. Most importantly I learned that you should never let fear control you and to take risk in life...be the person you always wanted to be not the person you are because you are scared to take chances. So overall I do think I am successful in life because of all of this. I was able to get the confidence to go after what I want in life.
No, it is not.Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.