Korrupt
Banned
What a sad existence..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i agree, were here for help with self improvement, tips and support, the main focus happens to be women, if you have another focus, go to another site or the Anything else section. Also, if you wish to become a PUA, then another site may be better for you as this trickery (although taught in part)is not what were after in the end.georgie24 said:dont understand direction of the topic
but our success is happiness
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
the Term Success is so thwarted and over used like a hooker on the vegas stripPurefilth said:i agree, were here for help with self improvement, tips and support, the main focus happens to be women, if you have another focus, go to another site or the Anything else section. Also, if you wish to become a PUA, then another site may be better for you as this trickery (although taught in part)is not what were after in the end.
As georgie24 says, happiness = success=happiness.
Indeed..Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Very well written, and congrats on becoming a more confident person.The Sperminator said:Here is the definition of success it is the achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted. If sleeping with women is your goal then yes you are successful if you are talking about in life then that's a different story.
Just because you can get women to sleep with you does not mean you are successful in life just in the women department....but before joining this site I was terrible with women a virgin, no dates, no kiss, no nothing. This site, books, articles, etc. that taught me how to get women to get women and I became successful with them.
I would say in general I became a more successful person because of it and not just because of the women but because I learned how to get what I want, I learned that nothing is impossible, I learned that if you work hard enough you can do anything you want. Most importantly I learned that you should never let fear control you and to take risk in life...be the person you always wanted to be not the person you are because you are scared to take chances. So overall I do think I am successful in life because of all of this. I was able to get the confidence to go after what I want in life.
No, it is not.Korrupt said:What a sad existence..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.