"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Our Role Models

PackDaddy

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2012
Messages
113
Reaction score
12
Location
Los Angeles
Hi fellow DJs, I'm sitting in the car on a long ride and was thinking about some of the people I look up to. I believe having role models is very important. They can teach us things and provide us with a sense of hope.

I'll start with mine and then want to hear yours.

Mine are:

Frank Sinatra - He was that fun rebel we all like. Did things his way; lived by his rules. He didn't care about what others thought about him. His style was cool. His music was inspirational and genuine. And, his voice was that quintessential deep man voice.

Bruce Lee - could knock someone down with a 3 inch punch. Was the martial arts king. Had some of the coolest style. Had extreme discipline. Only attacked in self-defense.

James Dean - was all around cool. Again, didn't live by life's rules.

Channing Tatum - can dance circles around most. Always plays the real human good guy. His fun-loving character brightens everyones spirits.

Richard Branson - the fun/wild entrepreneur. He has fun his way. His creative forward thinking drive is admirable.

Who are yours?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

foreverAFC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2012
Messages
1,202
Reaction score
137
Stallone
 

PackDaddy

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2012
Messages
113
Reaction score
12
Location
Los Angeles
PairPlush, those are good ones man. You must be an intellectual. And ForeverAFC, Stallone is a great one too.
 

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
Zebco96 said:
How I actually carry myself: Kerry King, Russell Brand, Nikolas Schreck, Ricky Gervais, etc.
Wow - I feel sorry for you.

Work on that. The worst of british comedy right there in bold.

You dont want to be walkin or talking like EITHER of these guys.

Neither of them are funny - just really annoying. Russell is a heroin addict and Ricky is a fat bag of shiit.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
Purefilth said:
Wow - I feel sorry for you.

Work on that. The worst of british comedy right there in bold.

You dont want to be walkin or talking like EITHER of these guys.

Neither of them are funny - just really annoying. Russell is a heroin addict and Ricky is a fat bag of shiit.

LMAO, I was thinking the same shıt! Russell Brand?? Fück me runnin! I hope that was a troll post.
 

Velor

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 27, 2013
Messages
54
Reaction score
1
Eminem is my http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCLOzLsza3c

He decided he wanted to rap and he managed to become one of the best rappers of the world, maybe the most famous and surely the most influential world-wide. That's some rock-solid determination and must be admired. Or at least, I do admire it.
That's the lesson I learned from him, dedicate yourself to something you love and become the G.O.A.T. at it.

Dr.Dre, Mel Gibson, Eric Clapton.

I'd say Will Smith is another great man if you need inspiration, he managed to rock everything he did, from movies, to music, and also I am a M.I.B. so.. But no one will ever know it. Obviously.

Other than them, let's say historically, I immensely respect Gandhi, Mussolini and John Kennedy.
And let me put Bukowsky in this. I know, Charles is kinda the opposite of a role model, that's why I love him.-
 

PackDaddy

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2012
Messages
113
Reaction score
12
Location
Los Angeles
Zebco, I admire the liking how they don't care. Because, honestly man you shouldn't care about what anyone else thinks. However, I hate to break it to you, but Brand is very insecure. Gervais I'm guessing may be pretty insecure himself. Can't figure out Jeselnik yet.
 
Top