"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi fellow DJs, I'm sitting in the car on a long ride and was thinking about some of the people I look up to. I believe having role models is very important. They can teach us things and provide us with a sense of hope.

I'll start with mine and then want to hear yours.

Mine are:

Frank Sinatra - He was that fun rebel we all like. Did things his way; lived by his rules. He didn't care about what others thought about him. His style was cool. His music was inspirational and genuine. And, his voice was that quintessential deep man voice.

Bruce Lee - could knock someone down with a 3 inch punch. Was the martial arts king. Had some of the coolest style. Had extreme discipline. Only attacked in self-defense.

James Dean - was all around cool. Again, didn't live by life's rules.

Channing Tatum - can dance circles around most. Always plays the real human good guy. His fun-loving character brightens everyones spirits.

Richard Branson - the fun/wild entrepreneur. He has fun his way. His creative forward thinking drive is admirable.

Who are yours?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PairPlush, those are good ones man. You must be an intellectual. And ForeverAFC, Stallone is a great one too.
 

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Zebco96 said:
How I actually carry myself: Kerry King, Russell Brand, Nikolas Schreck, Ricky Gervais, etc.
Wow - I feel sorry for you.

Work on that. The worst of british comedy right there in bold.

You dont want to be walkin or talking like EITHER of these guys.

Neither of them are funny - just really annoying. Russell is a heroin addict and Ricky is a fat bag of shiit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Purefilth said:
Wow - I feel sorry for you.

Work on that. The worst of british comedy right there in bold.

You dont want to be walkin or talking like EITHER of these guys.

Neither of them are funny - just really annoying. Russell is a heroin addict and Ricky is a fat bag of shiit.

LMAO, I was thinking the same shıt! Russell Brand?? Fück me runnin! I hope that was a troll post.
 

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Eminem is my http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCLOzLsza3c

He decided he wanted to rap and he managed to become one of the best rappers of the world, maybe the most famous and surely the most influential world-wide. That's some rock-solid determination and must be admired. Or at least, I do admire it.
That's the lesson I learned from him, dedicate yourself to something you love and become the G.O.A.T. at it.

Dr.Dre, Mel Gibson, Eric Clapton.

I'd say Will Smith is another great man if you need inspiration, he managed to rock everything he did, from movies, to music, and also I am a M.I.B. so.. But no one will ever know it. Obviously.

Other than them, let's say historically, I immensely respect Gandhi, Mussolini and John Kennedy.
And let me put Bukowsky in this. I know, Charles is kinda the opposite of a role model, that's why I love him.-
 

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Zebco, I admire the liking how they don't care. Because, honestly man you shouldn't care about what anyone else thinks. However, I hate to break it to you, but Brand is very insecure. Gervais I'm guessing may be pretty insecure himself. Can't figure out Jeselnik yet.
 
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