Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't see what the problem here is. They're changing the word "sons" to "us" so it's now grammatically correct and includes both genders
They're changing the word "sons" to "us"
I don't want to offend anyone but unlike the U.S., Canada isn't a real country...and it never has been. First, we were a colony of the French, then a colony of the British, then an [economic] colony of the United States. Now that the American economic and cultural power has started to wane, Canadians no longer have a powerful master to look up to and they are very confused.The thing was written in 1814 and hasn't had any modifications. It looks like it's written in an ancient language, and it is! But you know what? Americans fvcking love it. They haven't removed God from it or anything. It's there as raw as it always was, and that's a good thing. There would be a lot of pissed off people if anybody even suggested to change it.
Then there's Canada. Our national anthem has been fvcked with as much as our modern day women.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Would you have argued against abolishing slavery, on the basis it would have altered our country, history, and patriotism?It's not really about this, it's about altering our country, our history, and our patriotism.