Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't see what the problem here is. They're changing the word "sons" to "us" so it's now grammatically correct and includes both genders
They're changing the word "sons" to "us"
I don't want to offend anyone but unlike the U.S., Canada isn't a real country...and it never has been. First, we were a colony of the French, then a colony of the British, then an [economic] colony of the United States. Now that the American economic and cultural power has started to wane, Canadians no longer have a powerful master to look up to and they are very confused.The thing was written in 1814 and hasn't had any modifications. It looks like it's written in an ancient language, and it is! But you know what? Americans fvcking love it. They haven't removed God from it or anything. It's there as raw as it always was, and that's a good thing. There would be a lot of pissed off people if anybody even suggested to change it.
Then there's Canada. Our national anthem has been fvcked with as much as our modern day women.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Would you have argued against abolishing slavery, on the basis it would have altered our country, history, and patriotism?It's not really about this, it's about altering our country, our history, and our patriotism.