"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Our Inner games

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frivolousz21

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does our confidence really come from within?

what makes people always feel good about ****?

do even the best DJ's get down?

I also think its time around this site, we start buckling down and pushing harder to get the women and be stronger men....maybe just the calm attitude here is making some of us weak. Who knows..but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
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I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
 
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Re: Re: Our Inner games

Originally posted by diablo
I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
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well put... just read that a few times over
 
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you are so right....100 percent right!

that is great....and the empty feeling I am having is not having a back up girl there..period..im not in love..but if I had a hottie wanting to **** me now..i wouldnt care about the X
 
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