"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Our Inner games

frivolousz21

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does our confidence really come from within?

what makes people always feel good about ****?

do even the best DJ's get down?

I also think its time around this site, we start buckling down and pushing harder to get the women and be stronger men....maybe just the calm attitude here is making some of us weak. Who knows..but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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diablo

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
 

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Re: Re: Our Inner games

Originally posted by diablo
I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
well put... just read that a few times over
 

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you are so right....100 percent right!

that is great....and the empty feeling I am having is not having a back up girl there..period..im not in love..but if I had a hottie wanting to **** me now..i wouldnt care about the X
 
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