"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Our Inner games

frivolousz21

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does our confidence really come from within?

what makes people always feel good about ****?

do even the best DJ's get down?

I also think its time around this site, we start buckling down and pushing harder to get the women and be stronger men....maybe just the calm attitude here is making some of us weak. Who knows..but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but I realize after how this short term ltr ended and how its makes me feel..I have more work to do.
I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
 

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Re: Re: Our Inner games

Originally posted by diablo
I've never heard of a "short term long term relationship" before. :p It's in people's nature to get complacent when they have something they want... why work on picking up women when you already have one in your pocket? The answer is simple, as you're finding out... you won't have her forever, and to avoid that feeling you need to have more than one going at a time - or at least have your skills still at the level so you aren't left sitting there empty handed saying "Huh?".
well put... just read that a few times over
 

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you are so right....100 percent right!

that is great....and the empty feeling I am having is not having a back up girl there..period..im not in love..but if I had a hottie wanting to **** me now..i wouldnt care about the X
 
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