"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Our future leaders - High schooler 'regrets' accepting dare to jump into shark tank at California aquarium

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Robert28

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Make him swim in the shark tank for those 30 hours. The sharks will show him who owns the water.
 

zekko

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But he was being an alpha risk taker!
These are the guys that females select so that their genetic material gets to be passed on.
If they survive the sharks, that is.
 

sangheilios

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That's just an example of a stupid teenager with a follower mindset.

Reminds of the kids on the TV show "scared straight". I remember one where this young teenager was in a gang and they told him to carry drugs to school in his backpack, naturally he went and did what they told him for I'm sure some sort of promise.
 

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But he was being an alpha risk taker!
These are the guys that females select so that their genetic material gets to be passed on.
If they survive the sharks, that is.
I've taken stupid risks when I was younger, skydiving, bungi jumping, sex with the ladies, but I'd never swim with sharks. That's just plan dump and would be a very painful death. Ever see 007 Licence to Kill's shark scene?

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who Dares Win

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Risks are fine as long as there is a great reward in case of a (possible) positive outcome...risks for the sake of taking a risks are the sure sign of a stupid mind.
 

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