"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Our friendship should be exclusive??

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i was bored after hanging out with girl A so i text this girl B that i just noe for a short time, just for flirting around:

me: "Hey sugar where r u now"

her: "on my way 2 dance rehersal, how was ur day?"

me: "u wont belive dis i was suppose 2 hang out wif frnds i met da cute girl frm party (girl A) at bus stop she had 2 buy books so i ditch my frnds n went wif her instead :D"

her: "oh la la so wat u guyz do?"

me: "not much we touch had a vry passionate frnch kiss n made out tats it y?"

her: "o come on y cant i b interested in ur love life?"

me: "sugar r u jealous if u r den ill stop hang out wif her :p"

her: "den who wil u hang out wif"

me: " ppl u wont get jealous frm"

her: "hmm ill think about it. maybe our friendship should be exclusive!"

what did she mean by that :confused:

thx fellow DJs
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dunno, just set a date with her to find out :p , she was flirting with u, good hint, find out more
 
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i dont understand why you have to do that ghetto talk on here. DO u think we are all from the ghetto and can understand that junk ?

If you are going to post here, please spell your words correctly. its common courtesy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
i dont understand why you have to do that ghetto talk on here. DO u think we are all from the ghetto and can understand that junk ?

If you are going to post here, please spell your words correctly. its common courtesy.
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Agreed.....If a girl sent me texts like that i would tell her to come back when she has learnt proper English. Cant stand it!
 
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LOL it's not ghetto talk when you text message someone you are doing it in a hurry and you wanna do it quick, so most people do use abbreviations and shorten forms of the words. They even have a version of bible like this invented in the UK :eek:
 
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