"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Our Dream Girls

dynamicallyidle

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Even though we may drop our standards for practice, we all want our dream girl. What are the qualities of YOUR dream girl? Write them down, here, in this post. Look at your description from time to time, to keep yourself inspired, and ultimately, find a woman that meets your standards.

For many of you, this may be far away, but you should NOT get married to a woman unless you're absolutely certain no one can replace her, that she's one-of-a-kind.


My dream girl:
5'7"+
-skinny
-energetic
-happy
-different from me - but in a complementary way. i want her to bring a different dimension to my life that i would not normally provide for myself
-funny
-intelligent
-witty - will not just be an "audience" when there is a funny topic, but will be able to get up and run with it
-caring
-educated
-appreciates good music
-ethically sound
and of course: BEAUTIFUL
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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piranha45

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you pretty much described everyone's dream girl.
 

judoalex

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i want a half japanese/half native american
very spiritual
meditates regulary
athletic
deep
loves nature
height doesnt matter, as long as she not taller
natural
smokes weed time to time
can have nice conversations with
funny
kama sutra expert
supports my dreams
has reams on her own
beautiful long hair
 

Warboss Alex

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My Dream Girl = my missus. :)

It's funny though.. you guys keep trying to sleep with as many different women as possible and yet when you list your ideal woman, you want them to be non-slutty, doesn't go to too many parties or get drunk, sleeps around etc.. lol.

Double standards anyone? ;)
 

DJinTraining06

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5'5''
nice rack
has an a$$
not fat or chubby, but has meat on her bones
brown hair, dirty blonde acceptable
clear skin, minimal freckles, no acne
white teeth and not crooked
green or blue eyes
not hairy (arms or sideburns - for example)

As for personality:

Intelligent
sweet and somewhat innocent
Enjoys sarcasm and dry humor
Not lazy, likes to go out
Not a spoiled a brat
emotionally stable (as much as a woman can be)
will mentally challenge me
can take a joke, and dish a joke well
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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crossboss

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My girl

Intelligent

Orange or Red hair

Blue eyes

Freckles

Nice boobs

Nice ass

Easy going.

Respects me.

Also a girl who is mixed asian/black. I find hot.
 

Mr. Unique

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Blond or brown hair
Blue or brown eyes
Big cat eyes
5'3 to 5'9
Freckles are nice
Tan skin


Adriana lima or keira kneightly is how I picture my dream girl.
 

spesmilitis

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hillarious sence of humor, like, laugh till it hurts funny.

Athletic.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Delta

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nobody is one of a kind.

there is no ONE PERFECT girl... any attributes that you choose, there are countless women that will fill that bill.

having said that, what i need my woman to have:

- nice, largish tits (b+ to c+)
- shapely ass
- face can be kinda ugly
- won't give me a lot of grief.

i don't need a friend. i don't need a confidant. i don't need emotional support.

basically something nice to fvck every once and a while (ah, let's face it, a few times a day). everything else i can get from friends/family/pet.


delta
 

realsmoothie

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Huh, I'll bite.

red hair, green eyes, freckles.

5'7", 130 lbs. Perky boobs. Nice bellybutton. No metal poked in her, no tattoos. Cute toes (we all got a fetish). Nicely "trimmed", not bare, if you know what I mean.

Sarcastically funny, damned smart. Night owl. Knowledgable about pop culture, watches football.

Oh... and a multi-millionaire.
 
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