"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Our Dream Girls

dynamicallyidle

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Even though we may drop our standards for practice, we all want our dream girl. What are the qualities of YOUR dream girl? Write them down, here, in this post. Look at your description from time to time, to keep yourself inspired, and ultimately, find a woman that meets your standards.

For many of you, this may be far away, but you should NOT get married to a woman unless you're absolutely certain no one can replace her, that she's one-of-a-kind.


My dream girl:
5'7"+
-skinny
-energetic
-happy
-different from me - but in a complementary way. i want her to bring a different dimension to my life that i would not normally provide for myself
-funny
-intelligent
-witty - will not just be an "audience" when there is a funny topic, but will be able to get up and run with it
-caring
-educated
-appreciates good music
-ethically sound
and of course: BEAUTIFUL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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piranha45

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you pretty much described everyone's dream girl.
 

judoalex

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i want a half japanese/half native american
very spiritual
meditates regulary
athletic
deep
loves nature
height doesnt matter, as long as she not taller
natural
smokes weed time to time
can have nice conversations with
funny
kama sutra expert
supports my dreams
has reams on her own
beautiful long hair
 

Warboss Alex

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My Dream Girl = my missus. :)

It's funny though.. you guys keep trying to sleep with as many different women as possible and yet when you list your ideal woman, you want them to be non-slutty, doesn't go to too many parties or get drunk, sleeps around etc.. lol.

Double standards anyone? ;)
 

DJinTraining06

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5'5''
nice rack
has an a$$
not fat or chubby, but has meat on her bones
brown hair, dirty blonde acceptable
clear skin, minimal freckles, no acne
white teeth and not crooked
green or blue eyes
not hairy (arms or sideburns - for example)

As for personality:

Intelligent
sweet and somewhat innocent
Enjoys sarcasm and dry humor
Not lazy, likes to go out
Not a spoiled a brat
emotionally stable (as much as a woman can be)
will mentally challenge me
can take a joke, and dish a joke well
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crossboss

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My girl

Intelligent

Orange or Red hair

Blue eyes

Freckles

Nice boobs

Nice ass

Easy going.

Respects me.

Also a girl who is mixed asian/black. I find hot.
 

Mr. Unique

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Blond or brown hair
Blue or brown eyes
Big cat eyes
5'3 to 5'9
Freckles are nice
Tan skin


Adriana lima or keira kneightly is how I picture my dream girl.
 

spesmilitis

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hillarious sence of humor, like, laugh till it hurts funny.

Athletic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Delta

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nobody is one of a kind.

there is no ONE PERFECT girl... any attributes that you choose, there are countless women that will fill that bill.

having said that, what i need my woman to have:

- nice, largish tits (b+ to c+)
- shapely ass
- face can be kinda ugly
- won't give me a lot of grief.

i don't need a friend. i don't need a confidant. i don't need emotional support.

basically something nice to fvck every once and a while (ah, let's face it, a few times a day). everything else i can get from friends/family/pet.


delta
 

realsmoothie

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Huh, I'll bite.

red hair, green eyes, freckles.

5'7", 130 lbs. Perky boobs. Nice bellybutton. No metal poked in her, no tattoos. Cute toes (we all got a fetish). Nicely "trimmed", not bare, if you know what I mean.

Sarcastically funny, damned smart. Night owl. Knowledgable about pop culture, watches football.

Oh... and a multi-millionaire.
 
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