"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Our 1st Anniversary is Coming. She's Preparing a Big Gift. I Have No Idea What to Giv

Fela Kuti

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2006
Messages
455
Reaction score
3
Hi Guys,

Our 1st anniversary is 3 weeks from now. I somehow know that she's preparing a wonderful gift for me, just like she did for my birthday. Do you have any idea what to give her? What about not giving anything? Just take her to dinner and it's on me.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Fela Kuti

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2006
Messages
455
Reaction score
3
sorry, guys. there's apparently many threads already for this topic..
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Jewerly box.. Most ppl will say she wants something to put in one. But, I have given a ex gf one and she loved it. Just get creative and get her something she likes.
 

suavesuave

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2008
Messages
293
Reaction score
12
Age
47
a romantic dinner?>
 

Fela Kuti

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2006
Messages
455
Reaction score
3
I've thought about the dinner, but the problem is she'll give me a wonderful gift. Will a dinner be enough to match that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

JimmyBizzle

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2007
Messages
143
Reaction score
6
My one year anniversary on June 1, 2008:

Took my girlfriend to a secluded spot on the shore of a local lake. It was on some cliffs/rocks as the sun was setting. As a "gift" I bought her a necklace/earring combo that looked VERY EXPENSIVE but I got it for under $30 at JCPennys on clearance;) . I pulled it out in a surprise fashion at one point in the evening when she least expected it and it blew her away. Then I very romantically and seductively put both things on her. To do this I waited for a point in the evening when she walked into the lake up to her ankles and then I surprised her with it from behind. To this day she hardly takes the earrings off ;) .

As for the meal, I got fried chicken from a local grocery store, a pasta side, a small assorted fruit thing, some sweet Hawaiian rolls, and a bottle of champagne.....the perfect picnic meal that shows her you don't think you have to spend money on extravagent food to make her happy. Grab a cheap sweet thing from the bakery while you're at it that you can feed to each other, cause she'll love that for after the meal.

Things I brought with me to ensure the night ran smoothly:

I had a full picnic set type thing that included:
-2 plates
-silverware for 2
-bug spray(very important to show you THINK AND PLAN things)-this is key to everything
-6 small candles for when it gets dark
-lighter/matches
-plenty of napkins
-2 wine glasses
-plastic bag to put trash in so she doesn't think you're an uncaring ******* who wants to litter

END RESULT:
She got naked to show me how the jewelry looked on her next to the shore and then gave me a bj right then and there.

This worked for me, I hope it works for you. Just make sure she knows that YOU'RE in charge and that YOU know how to show her a good time. I truly think that is the key. Good luck bro.

ONLY THING I WOULD DO DIFFERENT THINKING BACK ON IT:
Tell her to bring a swimsuit or pack one of hers without her knowing it so that some possible skinny dipping could eventually take place. And bring one for yourself too, not that boxers don't do the trick already.
 
Top