"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Our 1st Anniversary is Coming. She's Preparing a Big Gift. I Have No Idea What to Giv

Fela Kuti

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Hi Guys,

Our 1st anniversary is 3 weeks from now. I somehow know that she's preparing a wonderful gift for me, just like she did for my birthday. Do you have any idea what to give her? What about not giving anything? Just take her to dinner and it's on me.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fela Kuti

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sorry, guys. there's apparently many threads already for this topic..
 

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Jewerly box.. Most ppl will say she wants something to put in one. But, I have given a ex gf one and she loved it. Just get creative and get her something she likes.
 

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a romantic dinner?>
 

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I've thought about the dinner, but the problem is she'll give me a wonderful gift. Will a dinner be enough to match that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My one year anniversary on June 1, 2008:

Took my girlfriend to a secluded spot on the shore of a local lake. It was on some cliffs/rocks as the sun was setting. As a "gift" I bought her a necklace/earring combo that looked VERY EXPENSIVE but I got it for under $30 at JCPennys on clearance;) . I pulled it out in a surprise fashion at one point in the evening when she least expected it and it blew her away. Then I very romantically and seductively put both things on her. To do this I waited for a point in the evening when she walked into the lake up to her ankles and then I surprised her with it from behind. To this day she hardly takes the earrings off ;) .

As for the meal, I got fried chicken from a local grocery store, a pasta side, a small assorted fruit thing, some sweet Hawaiian rolls, and a bottle of champagne.....the perfect picnic meal that shows her you don't think you have to spend money on extravagent food to make her happy. Grab a cheap sweet thing from the bakery while you're at it that you can feed to each other, cause she'll love that for after the meal.

Things I brought with me to ensure the night ran smoothly:

I had a full picnic set type thing that included:
-2 plates
-silverware for 2
-bug spray(very important to show you THINK AND PLAN things)-this is key to everything
-6 small candles for when it gets dark
-lighter/matches
-plenty of napkins
-2 wine glasses
-plastic bag to put trash in so she doesn't think you're an uncaring ******* who wants to litter

END RESULT:
She got naked to show me how the jewelry looked on her next to the shore and then gave me a bj right then and there.

This worked for me, I hope it works for you. Just make sure she knows that YOU'RE in charge and that YOU know how to show her a good time. I truly think that is the key. Good luck bro.

ONLY THING I WOULD DO DIFFERENT THINKING BACK ON IT:
Tell her to bring a swimsuit or pack one of hers without her knowing it so that some possible skinny dipping could eventually take place. And bring one for yourself too, not that boxers don't do the trick already.
 
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