"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ouch :(
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MrP
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Something to cheer you up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N16KRNYeRs8
eaglez1177
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Just a disclaimer before you read this: I am by no mean a true DJ.saturos said:
Anyways, I can almost guarantee you that the reason you were rejected wasn't because you were ugly. Generally speaking, at least where I live, it is pretty easy to pick up at a club and I have seen some pretty ugly kids do fine. In a club its ALL about body language and confidence, looks honestly dont matter a great deal. Think about it, its dark and everone is bit tipsy.
I think the most important thing is to look like you are having a good time. If you go there just going from girl to girl in a tedious manner you aren't really projecting yourself as someone who is out to enjoy himself.
I think I am average looking and even for me there were times when I was literally just talking to my bro, and random girls just pulled me in to dance or came over and hit on me. Its all about looking comfortable in your situation
I'd reccommend finding a couple people who are good at picking up in clubs and just watch them because its fairly easy.
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For some time, I beat myself up over it until I realized I really hated being at the clubs, and that I only went there for the girls. Wrong attitude! I now meet girls at other places, and through activities I enjoy. Works like a charm for me.
DOn't take it personally OP, clubs are hard places to pull. If you want to pick up girls, you'll have more luck at house parties or on the streets.