"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ouch :(
- Thread starter saturos
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MrP
Don Juan
Something to cheer you up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N16KRNYeRs8
eaglez1177
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
originaldj
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Just a disclaimer before you read this: I am by no mean a true DJ.saturos said:
Anyways, I can almost guarantee you that the reason you were rejected wasn't because you were ugly. Generally speaking, at least where I live, it is pretty easy to pick up at a club and I have seen some pretty ugly kids do fine. In a club its ALL about body language and confidence, looks honestly dont matter a great deal. Think about it, its dark and everone is bit tipsy.
I think the most important thing is to look like you are having a good time. If you go there just going from girl to girl in a tedious manner you aren't really projecting yourself as someone who is out to enjoy himself.
I think I am average looking and even for me there were times when I was literally just talking to my bro, and random girls just pulled me in to dance or came over and hit on me. Its all about looking comfortable in your situation
I'd reccommend finding a couple people who are good at picking up in clubs and just watch them because its fairly easy.
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For some time, I beat myself up over it until I realized I really hated being at the clubs, and that I only went there for the girls. Wrong attitude! I now meet girls at other places, and through activities I enjoy. Works like a charm for me.
DOn't take it personally OP, clubs are hard places to pull. If you want to pick up girls, you'll have more luck at house parties or on the streets.