"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Other women seeing you get rejected during cold-approaches

edger

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Warrior74 said:
You know what to do, you just don't want to do it. Eye contact, social proof, looking for the proper signals. Just do it right and you won't be making post like this.
"You don't want to do it". As if you can read my mind, I love it. That is all I do when I'm out there(eye contact, looking for proper signals, etc.), but don't get results most of time. It is exactly the "no results", that is forcing me to cold-approach...because standing there waiting for vibes, just isn't cutting it. Yeah, once or twice every 2 months a hot chick will throw a vibe my way, but that's not enough. I seriously need to start pulling with consistency.

The social proof part, I'm definitely without a doubt lacking in, as I have no women whatsoever to act as a catalyst of getting other women interested in me. I have "0" women I'm in contact with. And the reason for that is because I don't keep women around, unless I'm sleeping with them. I guess I'll have to wait till the next hot "interested" woman comes along, to start pulling more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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edger, tbh, I have no idea why you keep telling us that you have above average game. You have no woman you can use as social proof, you have zero woman contact, you can't pull and haven't pulled since forever. You go to night clubs, stare at women and wave them over. You ignore the hot ones who want to dance with you or talk to you because you think you're playing hard to get and they're attention wh0res.

What kind of game is that?
 

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Jitterbug said:
You go to night clubs, stare at women and wave them over. You ignore the hot ones who want to dance with you or talk to you because you think you're playing hard to get and they're attention wh0res.

What kind of game is that?
Fair enough, that's your opinion. I consider it above-avgerage game(maybe not the best, but it's up there in my opinion).

"Waving" a woman over shows a bit of balls, displays confidence, and puts you ABOVE her. And what woman isn't attracted to a guy with balls, confidence, and one who conveys an attitude that he's the prize?

Also, the other chick who asked me if "I wanted to f*ck her" was most likely nothing more than a c*ck-tease. Not only did I think that too, but so did Bible-Belt(and a few others), and you know what?..no offense to anyone here, but I think I'll take Bible-Belt's advice on this particular matter, who supposedly pulls quite a bit of hot women. So, that's why I kinda brushed that chick off. Because I figured she was just fishing for attention. Oh yeah, and when I seen her that second time, I made a joke out of her "so you wanna f*ck me?" question and asked her the same thing, to which I got no response. If she wanted to jump my bones, she would've said "yes" or responded more favoringly. But she didn't. Further proof she was more than likely an attention wh*re c*ck-tease.
 
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