"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Other women seeing you get rejected during cold-approaches

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Warrior74 said:
You know what to do, you just don't want to do it. Eye contact, social proof, looking for the proper signals. Just do it right and you won't be making post like this.
"You don't want to do it". As if you can read my mind, I love it. That is all I do when I'm out there(eye contact, looking for proper signals, etc.), but don't get results most of time. It is exactly the "no results", that is forcing me to cold-approach...because standing there waiting for vibes, just isn't cutting it. Yeah, once or twice every 2 months a hot chick will throw a vibe my way, but that's not enough. I seriously need to start pulling with consistency.

The social proof part, I'm definitely without a doubt lacking in, as I have no women whatsoever to act as a catalyst of getting other women interested in me. I have "0" women I'm in contact with. And the reason for that is because I don't keep women around, unless I'm sleeping with them. I guess I'll have to wait till the next hot "interested" woman comes along, to start pulling more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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edger, tbh, I have no idea why you keep telling us that you have above average game. You have no woman you can use as social proof, you have zero woman contact, you can't pull and haven't pulled since forever. You go to night clubs, stare at women and wave them over. You ignore the hot ones who want to dance with you or talk to you because you think you're playing hard to get and they're attention wh0res.

What kind of game is that?
 

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Jitterbug said:
You go to night clubs, stare at women and wave them over. You ignore the hot ones who want to dance with you or talk to you because you think you're playing hard to get and they're attention wh0res.

What kind of game is that?
Fair enough, that's your opinion. I consider it above-avgerage game(maybe not the best, but it's up there in my opinion).

"Waving" a woman over shows a bit of balls, displays confidence, and puts you ABOVE her. And what woman isn't attracted to a guy with balls, confidence, and one who conveys an attitude that he's the prize?

Also, the other chick who asked me if "I wanted to f*ck her" was most likely nothing more than a c*ck-tease. Not only did I think that too, but so did Bible-Belt(and a few others), and you know what?..no offense to anyone here, but I think I'll take Bible-Belt's advice on this particular matter, who supposedly pulls quite a bit of hot women. So, that's why I kinda brushed that chick off. Because I figured she was just fishing for attention. Oh yeah, and when I seen her that second time, I made a joke out of her "so you wanna f*ck me?" question and asked her the same thing, to which I got no response. If she wanted to jump my bones, she would've said "yes" or responded more favoringly. But she didn't. Further proof she was more than likely an attention wh*re c*ck-tease.
 
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