"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Other women checking out HB8+ dates

DonVariously

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Whenever I date a HB8+ I notice other women blatantly checking her out. I wonder what you think the reason is, since it's really obvious and it doesn't really happen with less pretty women. Is there a Red Pill reasoning for it or am I just looking into this too much?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bingo-Player

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Women like to compare themselves to one another

"is my outfit better than hers" , " is my bum bigger" , "am i slimmer"

If a woman has a bagged what is perceived as a high status male the investigation must go deeper
 

The Duke

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I've read that women do this to evaluate their self worth and increase self esteem.

My girlfriend has a very nice waist to hip ratio, and I catch her checking out other girls with nice waist to hip ratios as well. Her eye gravitates to other females that look like her.

She also appreciates female beauty, and most of my girlfriends have.

I think there is a little lesbian in every straight attractive female.
 

Stanley

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Attractive women are cutthroat in the competition of attraction.

Jealousy, self esteem, self image and competition anxiety. They are always sizing themselves up visually and seeing where they stack up. In my experience the more attractive the woman the more concerned she is with her own appearance as well as others.

I think back to a girlfriend who was a smokeshow and she would spend her time on instagram and the like constantly comparing herself to other women. "Her waist is slimmer than mine" "Her boobs are bigger" "she has a nicer nose" these are the type of comments I hear from attractive women constantly. I think it comes from a place of insecurity (clearly) but on the flip side women do it to validate themselves and the whole thing is a double edged sword. This comparison can either bring their self esteem up if they view their traits as 'superior' or down if inferior.

Some women take this to the extreme in relationships and i've seen it and experienced this leading to self sabotage in the relationship.
Another manifestation of Solipsism?
Probably
 
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