"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ubercat

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Being an old b******d I used to use this feature to follow post by other mature males and some of the legends.

How do u do this now?

Cheers
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Click on their username and then click "follow."
 

ubercat

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Arrgh ignore me follow works. I thought it was some gay Facebook type thing
 

TheVirtualMind

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Sorry I meant follow as in 'find other posts by this member'. I found a lot of gold this way following n the back trails
Click on the poster, then "profile page", then "postings." That should be what you are looking for.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
This gets me wondering: aside from the mods, who exactly IS the administration? Is there more than one person apart of it?

Such are the questions of a DJ......
 

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Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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