"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ubercat

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Being an old b******d I used to use this feature to follow post by other mature males and some of the legends.

How do u do this now?

Cheers
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Click on their username and then click "follow."
 

ubercat

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Arrgh ignore me follow works. I thought it was some gay Facebook type thing
 

TheVirtualMind

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Sorry I meant follow as in 'find other posts by this member'. I found a lot of gold this way following n the back trails
Click on the poster, then "profile page", then "postings." That should be what you are looking for.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Building_and_Loan

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
 

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
This gets me wondering: aside from the mods, who exactly IS the administration? Is there more than one person apart of it?

Such are the questions of a DJ......
 

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Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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