"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ubercat

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Being an old b******d I used to use this feature to follow post by other mature males and some of the legends.

How do u do this now?

Cheers
UC
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheVirtualMind

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Click on their username and then click "follow."
 

ubercat

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Arrgh ignore me follow works. I thought it was some gay Facebook type thing
 

TheVirtualMind

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Sorry I meant follow as in 'find other posts by this member'. I found a lot of gold this way following n the back trails
Click on the poster, then "profile page", then "postings." That should be what you are looking for.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Building_and_Loan

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Is it possible to view a poster's age near their name/avatar?

I liked that feature and found it pretty useful.
That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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That is something else that is being worked on. There are over 1 BILLION options for this site and the administration is still working on getting us as much stuff as we request.
This gets me wondering: aside from the mods, who exactly IS the administration? Is there more than one person apart of it?

Such are the questions of a DJ......
 

Atom Smasher

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Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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