"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Other animals use social proof.

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I live in an apartment building where the balconies are connected and only separated by a metal barrier on each side.

The cat next door sometimes comes over and I scratch his ear. He never came over at first. It took about a month for him to get up the courage to come up to my window and let me scratch his ear.

The other day my neighbor was taking care of a second cat. I stepped out onto my balcony and both cats were sitting around on the next balcony over.

As soon as the first cat saw me he got up and came over for an ear scratch. I was looking at the second cat and he was assessing the situation. He was looking at me and watching the other cat. Within about 30 seconds to a minute he was over looking for a scratch.

It made me think about what we say here about social proof. It took the first cat a month to get to know me and the second cat made a decision to trust me based on the fact that the first cat was all happy to be around me.

Had the new cat been there alone it might have taken another month for him to trust me to give him an ear scratch, but with social proof he made a decision to come over in 30 seconds.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well, pretty much every animal does that

one has to take the chance so the others don't have too

they are just like us in so many ways
 
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Penguins push each other into the water to see if there are killer whales lurking, ready to eat them. If no one dies they all jump in!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haha Canadian, thats funny stuff.


You know I was living at my sisters for a bit and she has a few house cats... And just watching their actions and behaviors I was always thinking... Dude Girls are just like cats... they don't call it pvssy for no reason.


.....And guys are dogs.
 
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Randallpink83 said:
Dude Girls are just like cats... they don't call it pvssy for no reason.
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That is my observation as well. Thats how I came up with the user name Catnip. Actually Catnip was taken so I went with Canadian Catnip.

I want to be the catnip to the pvssy. :)
 
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