"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Other animals use social proof.

Canadian Catnip

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I live in an apartment building where the balconies are connected and only separated by a metal barrier on each side.

The cat next door sometimes comes over and I scratch his ear. He never came over at first. It took about a month for him to get up the courage to come up to my window and let me scratch his ear.

The other day my neighbor was taking care of a second cat. I stepped out onto my balcony and both cats were sitting around on the next balcony over.

As soon as the first cat saw me he got up and came over for an ear scratch. I was looking at the second cat and he was assessing the situation. He was looking at me and watching the other cat. Within about 30 seconds to a minute he was over looking for a scratch.

It made me think about what we say here about social proof. It took the first cat a month to get to know me and the second cat made a decision to trust me based on the fact that the first cat was all happy to be around me.

Had the new cat been there alone it might have taken another month for him to trust me to give him an ear scratch, but with social proof he made a decision to come over in 30 seconds.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well, pretty much every animal does that

one has to take the chance so the others don't have too

they are just like us in so many ways
 

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Penguins push each other into the water to see if there are killer whales lurking, ready to eat them. If no one dies they all jump in!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha Canadian, thats funny stuff.


You know I was living at my sisters for a bit and she has a few house cats... And just watching their actions and behaviors I was always thinking... Dude Girls are just like cats... they don't call it pvssy for no reason.


.....And guys are dogs.
 

Canadian Catnip

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Randallpink83 said:
Dude Girls are just like cats... they don't call it pvssy for no reason.
That is my observation as well. Thats how I came up with the user name Catnip. Actually Catnip was taken so I went with Canadian Catnip.

I want to be the catnip to the pvssy. :)
 
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