"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I know for me when i'm close its really hard for me to lose it and if i do lose it i can get myself back to busting pretty quick.

But for females they'll be close for a while and then when one thing goes wrong they lose it. Any guys have experience on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea AAA, when they say they are "close" or they sound like they are, keep doing what you are doing no matter what. Don't change a thing. When you change is when they lose it. If it's oral you're doing, do it the exact same rythem, motion, pressure, etc as you were when she indicates she is close to the O. Same with scroggin, if you're nailing her, keep going, don't slow down, if you are going nice and slow and deep or whatever, just keep doing that.
Initially switch things up a bit to keep it interesting for her (and you).

Put that to practice and see if it helps.
 

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hahaha i know that but its happened many times right when she says she close i'm already about to bust. if i keep going same pace i always do. i try to slow down a bit and hold it in but it never works. ahh maybe i try try kegal.
 

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I see, I had missunderstood your post. As far as that goes, that's a tricky one. You want to keep going so she can get hers but you get yours before hand. Think about baseball or lifting weights, that's what I did as a kid. Now I think about my girl and her friends and their friends and me in the middle of all of them, hahahaha. Wish I had more for ya man. They make a gel to decrease sensation. Have you thought about giving that a try? I don't know any names or where to get it. Google it.

Or, get yours quick, then go back to give her hers, she should be ok with that. It shows you are trying to do your job and make her satisfied.

Good Luck
 

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It's very hard to prevent yourself from busting when you're close. The only thing I can suggest if you want to prolong the sex is pull completely out then kiss and rub on her a bit until the nut sensation goes away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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