"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know for me when i'm close its really hard for me to lose it and if i do lose it i can get myself back to busting pretty quick.

But for females they'll be close for a while and then when one thing goes wrong they lose it. Any guys have experience on this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea AAA, when they say they are "close" or they sound like they are, keep doing what you are doing no matter what. Don't change a thing. When you change is when they lose it. If it's oral you're doing, do it the exact same rythem, motion, pressure, etc as you were when she indicates she is close to the O. Same with scroggin, if you're nailing her, keep going, don't slow down, if you are going nice and slow and deep or whatever, just keep doing that.
Initially switch things up a bit to keep it interesting for her (and you).

Put that to practice and see if it helps.
 

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hahaha i know that but its happened many times right when she says she close i'm already about to bust. if i keep going same pace i always do. i try to slow down a bit and hold it in but it never works. ahh maybe i try try kegal.
 

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I see, I had missunderstood your post. As far as that goes, that's a tricky one. You want to keep going so she can get hers but you get yours before hand. Think about baseball or lifting weights, that's what I did as a kid. Now I think about my girl and her friends and their friends and me in the middle of all of them, hahahaha. Wish I had more for ya man. They make a gel to decrease sensation. Have you thought about giving that a try? I don't know any names or where to get it. Google it.

Or, get yours quick, then go back to give her hers, she should be ok with that. It shows you are trying to do your job and make her satisfied.

Good Luck
 

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It's very hard to prevent yourself from busting when you're close. The only thing I can suggest if you want to prolong the sex is pull completely out then kiss and rub on her a bit until the nut sensation goes away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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