Orbiters

[zekko]

ha ha , my group has a some chicks which we recently decided to call 'the fan club'. Guess if it works the other way around it means we are doing something right!

Absolutely. Are you Italian (my group has-a some chicks)?

When I think about orbiters I think about guys who follow one particular girl, not a group of girls. Usually they are kind of crushing on her, or are waiting for some sexual action, or find validation by hanging around her because she's a hot chick.

It seems like a group of guys gathering a following of girls is a little different than a group of girls orbiting one guy. But it's all good.

I suppose to some extent putting together a set of plates is a bit like putting together a set of orbiters. Except with orbiters usually the relationships are platonic, at least from the girl's point of view. Although as Backbreaker noted, they are experts at dangling that carrot in front of you.

 

[synergy1]

ha ha how did you know besides the bad typo?

I know the types you are talking about as my last girlfriends room mate did this to a tee. She had guys all dangling along, but she kept them around for attention and favors...all of which they were ready to do on a moments whim.

As for a fan club, I actually prefer this than sealing the deal with haste. Why? more options. Once you are in with a chick, its very unlikely she is going to share so if you cultivate platonic relationships, you can meet those fringe friends who remain outside the main circle and get more consequence free play. My new rule of thumb is to avoid dating girls within an immediate social circle because it creates too much drama. So for me, the fan club is off limits. Their (hotter) friends are not. I am currently in the process of doing just this, although she is more aggressively pursuing me than the other way around. Atypical I know, but she's of eastern European decent.