zekko
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I recently saw a video where a guy was asking women which they preferred: pleasuring their man orally, or by hand. IIRC, the guy mostly stopped couples and asked the woman the question. To my surprise, most said they preferred oral. That surprised me, because it seems like the hand would be a little less, gross, shall we say? But they gave reasons for their preferences, mostly that it was more intimate. Of course, I think all the guys said they preferred to get oral, no surprise there. IMO oral is more intimate and erotic, plus more submissive to boot.
One woman gave a unique reason for her preference I had never considered: She said that a woman could never perform as well with her hand as a guy could, but that few guys are going to be able to give themselves oral. So there's no competition there lol.
As I said, I found the answers somewhat surprising. There was a movie from 2020 called Downhill, and the Julia Louis Dreyfuss character talked about giving a lot of oral in college. Another woman asked her: "Did you enjoy that?", and she replied "Well, I don't think anyone really enjoys it". The idea being the pleasure came from giving the pleasure, not from the act itself - that's the way I always figured it was.
By the way, I saw some other vid where most girls preferred to swallow as opposed to spit. That matches my experience, but then I'm usually seen as good boyfriend material - they might think more about STDs when dealing with Chad. Anyway, I've always heard that particular split was about 50/50.
A former girlfriend of mine once told me that when giving oral, she liked to fantasize about being forced to do it. I thought that was interesting, but that's a whole other story, I guess.
I felt sorry for one poor guy, because the girl he was with swore she would never do it. Also, I think every girl who gave expected the guy to give back in return. I know some guys here felt that giving a girl oral was weak and beta, a submissive act, though most disagreed.
I tried to keep it clean, and stay away from any porn terminology here. I also didn't include the link to the video, because I thought maybe it might be too graphic. If there's demand for it though, and a mod gives me the okay, I'll try to track it down.
One woman gave a unique reason for her preference I had never considered: She said that a woman could never perform as well with her hand as a guy could, but that few guys are going to be able to give themselves oral. So there's no competition there lol.
As I said, I found the answers somewhat surprising. There was a movie from 2020 called Downhill, and the Julia Louis Dreyfuss character talked about giving a lot of oral in college. Another woman asked her: "Did you enjoy that?", and she replied "Well, I don't think anyone really enjoys it". The idea being the pleasure came from giving the pleasure, not from the act itself - that's the way I always figured it was.
By the way, I saw some other vid where most girls preferred to swallow as opposed to spit. That matches my experience, but then I'm usually seen as good boyfriend material - they might think more about STDs when dealing with Chad. Anyway, I've always heard that particular split was about 50/50.
A former girlfriend of mine once told me that when giving oral, she liked to fantasize about being forced to do it. I thought that was interesting, but that's a whole other story, I guess.
I felt sorry for one poor guy, because the girl he was with swore she would never do it. Also, I think every girl who gave expected the guy to give back in return. I know some guys here felt that giving a girl oral was weak and beta, a submissive act, though most disagreed.
I tried to keep it clean, and stay away from any porn terminology here. I also didn't include the link to the video, because I thought maybe it might be too graphic. If there's demand for it though, and a mod gives me the okay, I'll try to track it down.
