So my girl tries to give me head and it feels decent, but I don't feel anywhere close to cuming. Is it because she is doing it wrong or do most guys enjoy oral but will not be able to orgasm from it. Also as a note I am not circumsized so I feel like I should feel even more from oral but I don't. Tips for teaching her to give better head?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most girls just aren't that good at giving head. I'm uncircumsized too, and after I got head from a few girls I thought maybe that had something to do with it. I just couldn't come.
Then I hooked a girl who actually could give good head, and I realized that it's simply an issue of girls not knowing how to give good head.
The best head is the simplest. I've had girls who deep throat, and work all around the angles of my junk and pull out all sorts of crazy tricks, but it doesn't get the job done. The type of head you see in porn isn't really that great (my fb watches porn and hooking up with her made me realize how much of the stuff you see in porn isn't THAT great in real life).
She just needs to be sitting in a relaxed way, put the head in her mouth, tuck her lips back and apply a medium amount of pressure (suction) while she bobs her head up and down. She doesn't need to go down too far, just a little will get the job done. It helps if she massages your balls.
A girl giving you head, and you giving a girl head is similiar in one important way: consistency. If she does one thing for thirty seconds, then switches to another thing, over and over again, it'll never get the job done. Once she's bobbing up and down on it, tell her to just keep going till you're done.
It really is that simple, but most girls don't seem to have learned. Which is really the fault of the guys they date for not showing them.
Explain it to her the way I just explained it to you and she should be fine.
Then I hooked a girl who actually could give good head, and I realized that it's simply an issue of girls not knowing how to give good head.
The best head is the simplest. I've had girls who deep throat, and work all around the angles of my junk and pull out all sorts of crazy tricks, but it doesn't get the job done. The type of head you see in porn isn't really that great (my fb watches porn and hooking up with her made me realize how much of the stuff you see in porn isn't THAT great in real life).
She just needs to be sitting in a relaxed way, put the head in her mouth, tuck her lips back and apply a medium amount of pressure (suction) while she bobs her head up and down. She doesn't need to go down too far, just a little will get the job done. It helps if she massages your balls.
A girl giving you head, and you giving a girl head is similiar in one important way: consistency. If she does one thing for thirty seconds, then switches to another thing, over and over again, it'll never get the job done. Once she's bobbing up and down on it, tell her to just keep going till you're done.
It really is that simple, but most girls don't seem to have learned. Which is really the fault of the guys they date for not showing them.
Explain it to her the way I just explained it to you and she should be fine.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
My girl can always make me *** from sucking my cack... she does this move coordinating her mouth and hand to finish me off. SHe's the only one who can consistently make me *** with her mouth/hand alone.
http://www.stacken.kth.se/~virgin/sex/artiklar/suckcock.html
It depends on you too man, if you nervous and tained it will never work.
It depends on you too man, if you nervous and tained it will never work.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Only three girls have ever made me cvm from oral. Most women do give lousy head.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr.Positive
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I like it when women use their tongue, that's what drives me through the roof. Most women do not use it enough though, or the correct way.
You don't have to tell her. If she doesn't want you to bust in her mouth she will tell you, trust me.Canibus27 said:
Chicks who swallow RULE. Something about a chick who at least tolerates it thats a big turn on.
I said this in another thread, but good head is AWESOME. If it's anything but good, it pretty much sucks.
My experience.....only about 10% of women are good at giving head. The rest REALLY need to take some lessons.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
:yes:STR8UP said:
I usually tell the girl before I cvm, just so she doesn't gag and wretch all over me, or even worse, spit it all back out on me. I tend to cvm a lot, though. A girl last month told me it shot out her nose.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ever onward
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I know this is gonna sound strange but......my right leg really shakes when I shoot. Is it like that for anyone else?
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
That's golden Nighthawk, I'm so gonna use that line next time.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
can't she tell when you are starting to get off by the way you act?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
wait for a time when she is really hungry, and then sugar coat yo dik.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
i never seen a uncircumcised penis so ill probably google it later to see but i got a question...why don't you guys go to the doctor and get that sh!t cut off? isnt it unattractive??The Forms said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
i see now...YUCK...ill never google penis pics ever again...my 15 seconds of gayness has ended....lol
Mr.Positive
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I dunno Ken785..your location DOES say San Francisco. Be sure to not let your 15 seconds of gayness turn into 15 years of gayness.Ken785 said:
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Ken, because we were born in a more enlightened part of the world that doesn't mutilate their babies.
And now that I'm older, there's no way I'm letting somebody go near there with anything sharp.
Besides, no girl's ever complained. My girlfriend didn't even notice for about a month that I wasn't cut.. When it's hard, the skin pulls back and looks virtually the same.
And now that I'm older, there's no way I'm letting somebody go near there with anything sharp.
Besides, no girl's ever complained. My girlfriend didn't even notice for about a month that I wasn't cut.. When it's hard, the skin pulls back and looks virtually the same.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.