"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oral sex....what do you reckon?

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Yea recently I've become concerned about giving oral sex. I mean, I always use a condom when having actual sex....but I've become aware recently that theres an actual risk of infection through unprotected oral sex.

You can get these dental dam things but I really don't fancy using one. What do you guys do....not give it/give it regardless/wear a dam etc.

Would like to get opinions and/or experiences. Cheers
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my experience, I tend not to give it unless im serious about the girl. Just learn to give it to her right...different angles, positions, etc...and there won't be much need to go down town on her... plus YOU DO NOT want to go down first time on any girl... do you really want to taste the last guy's d*ck she had... I don't
 

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spider_007 said:
don't have sex with high risk hoors
Right....and how can you tell?
 

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L777 said:
Right....and how can you tell?
if there is white stuff dripping out of them :whistle: you'll know

On the serious note;
get to know the girl....chances are your not going to fvck her on the first date, so use the time wiseley.....If you know her through friends...ask around...if you met her randomley - go on a fishing trip, and get radom pieces of info together and make your own decision
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HAHA I wonder why not many replies. :D.

KJ's...
 

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As long as she's clean, shaven, and doesn't look like there's anything wrong down there, I'll take my chances.
 

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I'd like to say that I wouldn't do it unless I was in a commited relationship with her and she showed me a clean bill of health.

But in reality, in the moment, as long as it looks ok and I ask her if she's clean and she says yes, I'll go for it.

Yeah, I'm an idiot.
 
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