"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oral sex....what do you reckon?

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Yea recently I've become concerned about giving oral sex. I mean, I always use a condom when having actual sex....but I've become aware recently that theres an actual risk of infection through unprotected oral sex.

You can get these dental dam things but I really don't fancy using one. What do you guys do....not give it/give it regardless/wear a dam etc.

Would like to get opinions and/or experiences. Cheers
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my experience, I tend not to give it unless im serious about the girl. Just learn to give it to her right...different angles, positions, etc...and there won't be much need to go down town on her... plus YOU DO NOT want to go down first time on any girl... do you really want to taste the last guy's d*ck she had... I don't
 

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spider_007 said:
don't have sex with high risk hoors
Right....and how can you tell?
 

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L777 said:
Right....and how can you tell?
if there is white stuff dripping out of them :whistle: you'll know

On the serious note;
get to know the girl....chances are your not going to fvck her on the first date, so use the time wiseley.....If you know her through friends...ask around...if you met her randomley - go on a fishing trip, and get radom pieces of info together and make your own decision
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HAHA I wonder why not many replies. :D.

KJ's...
 

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As long as she's clean, shaven, and doesn't look like there's anything wrong down there, I'll take my chances.
 

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I'd like to say that I wouldn't do it unless I was in a commited relationship with her and she showed me a clean bill of health.

But in reality, in the moment, as long as it looks ok and I ask her if she's clean and she says yes, I'll go for it.

Yeah, I'm an idiot.
 
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