"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oral sex on a girl...STD potential?

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I've actually had intercourse with 3 women (up from last year's total of "zero", thanks SoSuave) and I've always used good protection, namely latex condoms with spermicide.

On the other hand, I've fooled around with a bunch of girls, up to and including going "down there." Probably about 5 or 6 in all. I know HIV can go through oral sex especially if you have any cuts or open wounds in the mouth, but I don't believe I've had any of those at the time. Besides, nothing seems to get a girl squirming like going to work down there, if you know what you're doing. And I love seeing girls squirm. Also, if you do it right, they'll "return the favor."

I'm wondering, though, although HIV and other STDs (herpes) are communicable through oral sex, what IS the likelihood of infection? As much as REAL unprotected sex? Less? GREATER??

And what can be done about this? I mean, sure they have "dental dams," but I can imagine a girl just freaking out if I suddenly broke one of those out on her. They're self-conscious enough about "cleanliness" down there. :p

None of these girls seemed really "loose" or anything...I guess I'm just kind of paranoid. Was wondering if anyone's had experience with this. I'm more worried about HIV than anything else...that one'll kill you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know that you can get herpes. Cold sores are basically a form of herpes so NEVER let a girl with a sore in or on her mouth go near your shlong because she can give you herpes. And vice versa dont go down on a chick if u got a cold sore.
 

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I know that you can get herpes. Cold sores are basically a form of herpes so NEVER let a girl with a sore in or on her mouth go near your shlong because she can give you herpes. And vice versa dont go down on a chick if u got a cold sore.
More information on cold sores. If you have what you think is a cold sore, don't freak out. It could be a relatively harmless canker sore. Both occure in different places so if you understand them both you can determine which you have. (by "you" I am not addressing anyone specifically, I am being hypothetical)

http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00358.html
 

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I'm more worried about HIV than anything else. Not that I'm not concerned with herpes, but HIV is my main concern.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont reckon your going to catch much through a split lip, its not like your sharing needles or anything is it?

thought about using a dental dam?
 

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Stop freaking out. The uneducated public drives me crazy. First off. My mom is a doctor and I hear about all these myths about everything from STD's to colds to everything. It's almost comical.

First off. I'll start with the main concern of everyone, albeit a low risk unless you are gay.... HIV. This is transmitted 3 ways... sharing needles, blood transfusions (not so much anymore) and sexual intercourse. You don't get this from sharing cocain straws (as some think), from oral sex (there isn't one documented case), or from kissing. It has to be blood/blood contact. Not blood/sore or blood, cut contact. Their has to be actual blood and a pathway into your bloodstream open for it to be transmitted. This is one of the hardest diseases to catch, thankfully. The government is doing a good job of scaring people, and they should be. But they are lieing for a good cause.

You can get herpes 1 and 2, clamydia, gonnorhea, warts, and a few other pesky little STD's from oral sex. There is a very slim chance you will catch this unless they are visible. Recent studies have proven this... don't believe me? Look it up.

Just be careful... dont use a dental dam... she'll laugh at how anal you are. Just do a little examination beforehand.
 

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what if the girl has HIV, u go down on her, and you happen to get some of her juices in your mouth and you swallow it cuz u have to swallow ur saliva?

does the HIV get absorbed into the bloodstream from the small intestine?
 

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No you can't. That's like if you had it and she swallowed your load. Once again... not one documented case.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So oral sex is kinda safe if you keep out from those chicks who have different guy every day and you don't see any visual marks of a STD...

Phew.
 

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
So oral sex is kinda safe if you keep out from those chicks who have different guy every day and you don't see any visual marks of a STD...

Phew.
ahmen
 

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dont you guys feel relieved
 

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Originally posted by flava
dont you guys feel relieved

very very much.

but we must remember that what today is a fact (truth), tomorrow can be changed.. science in particular.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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