"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Optimum distance for best EC?

insidious

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Hey so I've noticed that I get good EC when I'm about 20-30 feet from the chick. I've held staring contests at this distance (gotta break in with a smile before it just seems like you're maddogging each other).

I've gotten good healthy EC at shorter distances but usually it lasts a few seconds and is over when our paths take us elsewhere. This is the nature of up front and close EC I guess.

Does anyone get consistently good 5-10 foot EC? I don't. Is it my incredibly good looks? LOL Do I look better at 20-30 feet or is just a function of human (female) nature? I imagine there is a sense of safetly for women at that distance.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
No such thing.

But I prefer <1 foot. ;)


JC
lol, looks are one thing.... and so is already being in the game

but step back and think outside of your life for a second

what if your not that great looking and your game is crap, but your doing the bootcamp and you want to hold the gaze...

if you walk up to a random girl in private that you've never met before and you walk straight up to her with a straight face she's going to think you've got something wrong with your head...

there really is no such thing as a perfect distance, before I started wearing glasses 5 feet and closer was the only place I could hold their gaze.
 
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