"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Optimum distance for best EC?

insidious

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Hey so I've noticed that I get good EC when I'm about 20-30 feet from the chick. I've held staring contests at this distance (gotta break in with a smile before it just seems like you're maddogging each other).

I've gotten good healthy EC at shorter distances but usually it lasts a few seconds and is over when our paths take us elsewhere. This is the nature of up front and close EC I guess.

Does anyone get consistently good 5-10 foot EC? I don't. Is it my incredibly good looks? LOL Do I look better at 20-30 feet or is just a function of human (female) nature? I imagine there is a sense of safetly for women at that distance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
No such thing.

But I prefer <1 foot. ;)


JC
lol, looks are one thing.... and so is already being in the game

but step back and think outside of your life for a second

what if your not that great looking and your game is crap, but your doing the bootcamp and you want to hold the gaze...

if you walk up to a random girl in private that you've never met before and you walk straight up to her with a straight face she's going to think you've got something wrong with your head...

there really is no such thing as a perfect distance, before I started wearing glasses 5 feet and closer was the only place I could hold their gaze.
 
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